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I still have a stain on my heart.] Back when I was a teen and then a young adult, I took my evangelical church’s teachings on romance seriously.
I spent my formative years believing I was “saving” something valuable: both my virginity and my heart, which were maybe the same thing.
I wasn’t taught tools (or if I was, I didn’t hear them) of how to navigate that as an adult.
After losing my virginity, I hoped the next man I would have sex with would be my husband.
But I have since dated men who pressured me so much that I have given in (which by the way, led quickly to the end of that relationship).
I pictured desire, once awakened, as a steamroller tilted downhill.
Raised in an environment of extreme boundaries, I never admitted to having any romantic or sexual desires. I didn’t kiss anyone until I was 26, and then it was an isolated incident.
Opting out of casual sex and a society that promotes promiscuity over chastity could be your best decision yet.